Women’s Issues

Common Causes of Body Insecurity

By |2024-02-08T11:39:45+00:00February 8th, 2024|Featured, Individual Counseling, Men’s Issues, Personal Development, Women’s Issues|

Body insecurity can cause issues with your mental health, including depression and anxiety. You may develop body dysmorphia disorder or an eating disorder trying to attain a specific look, weight, or size. Common Causes of Body Insecurity Body insecurity or dissatisfaction can be behind a person’s depression and low self-esteem. Getting to the root, the cause, of body insecurity can help you move forward with treatment. Acknowledging the beliefs or events that created a negative body image is information you can use to flip negative self-talk and break long-held beliefs about yourself. The following is a list of common causes of body insecurity. Societal ideals. What we see in the media influences our society’s ideals regarding body image. Movies, television, magazines, and social media show filtered, heavily edited, and enhanced images of men’s and women’s bodies that are often unattainable. Yet, these images cause us to fret and obsess over our flaws. If you feel depressed after viewing these images, unfollow or unsubscribe from accounts and media that make you feel unworthy. Instead, opt to follow and subscribe to body-positive accounts. Opinions of loved ones. Our loved ones are most likely our role models and mean well. However, their opinions can determine how we view our bodies. If a family member is obsessed with the scale, you may allow that number to dictate your day, too. We repeat the patterns from our childhood automatically unless we consciously choose to go in a different direction. It is not too late to change your habits, behaviors, thoughts, and beliefs regarding your appearance, body shape, or size. Verbal or physical abuse. Verbal or physical abuse from childhood or as an adult can change your beliefs about your body or appearance. If someone criticized or demeaned you about your size, weight, or looks, you [...]

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Signs of “Mom Brain” and How to Cope

By |2023-12-08T18:16:49+00:00December 8th, 2023|Featured, Individual Counseling, Personal Development, Women’s Issues|

Have you ever walked into a room, and stood there wondering why you came there in the first place? Or maybe you started tidying a room and ended up working on dishes and then folding laundry? Perhaps you have a color-coded planner, plus digital reminders, and a whiteboard calendar in the kitchen to remind people of key dates, appointments, etc. If any of these things are true, you might have “mom brain.” Over the past few years, there has been a growing conversation about the mental load that mothers carry. Even married women without children can find themselves carrying more mental load than their husbands no matter how equitably the household tasks are divided. When women invoke mom brain, they’re typically describing the experience of feeling scattered, distracted, forgetful, or disorganized as a result of being pregnant or having children. The hormones of pregnancy and postpartum have significant impacts on brain chemistry. Plus sleep deprivation can cause a temporary collapse of cognitive function. Beyond the postpartum period, you may continue to have seasons of forgetfulness, distraction, trouble focusing, and so on. If you are responsible for the well-being of yourself and multiple other people (spouses, children, pets) you are going to burn out if you don’t take proper care. As a mother, caring for your family is often your top priority, from making decisions regarding school, driving to extracurriculars and appointments, managing a household, and possibly even a job your brain is constantly fluttering from thought to thought. There are meal plans, groceries, and chores to do (or teach children to do, which is also a process). The sheer amount of brain power directed toward the care and keeping of a family is massive and often invisible. When left alone, this type of mental load can lead many women to [...]

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